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Hanging by a moment.



Life is made of a million singular moments that, woven together, create the fabric of our psyche. We all have key moments we can recall, many of which we’ve shared over the years, but why do I remember certain events and you don’t (or vice versa)? What makes certain moments more memorable to us than others?

Moments can be a lot of things. They can be happy. They can be disappointing. They can make you feel passionate about life or others. They can make you feel destitute and devoid of energy as a result of pain.


How we perceive the positive and negative effects of these moments on personal development is the difference between a fleeting moment and a lasting memory.
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